Learn · Unit 2: Talk
Personal communication profile
Place the learner's style on continuous dimensions (directness, humor, teasing, warmth, disclosure, verbosity, romantic signaling, leadership, emotional expression) so suggested lines can be adapted to sound like him.
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Vanessa Van Edwards: Why Women Never Make The First Move!
Van Edwards on who tends to initiate in courtship and the small opening signals that precede an approach; read the video before linking to confirm the claims shown.
Keep in mind. Popular-science framing; check any quoted statistic against the primary study before the app repeats it.
Vanessa Van Edwards: The 5 Flirting Styles: Which One Do You Speak?
Summary of the five flirting styles from Jeffrey Hall's research (physical, traditional, sincere, polite, playful) and how style mismatch can cause missed or misread signals.
Keep in mind. Secondary summary of academic work; the app should cite Hall's research directly.
Jeffrey Hall (University of Kansas): New book outlines five types of flirting styles
University summary of Hall's research identifying five flirting styles, useful for showing that people signal interest differently and that styles can mismatch.
Keep in mind. News release; cite the underlying Communication Quarterly study for claims.
Jeffrey Hall (University of Kansas): Flirting hard to detect, researcher says
University summary of Hall's study of first conversations: partners were far less accurate at detecting flirting than at noticing its absence, and observers were no better.
Keep in mind. News release; student samples and one lab setting.